I came to the From Alone To Committed Love 1-1 programme to help me with my never-ending relationship struggles. I’ve been single a lot of my life and the relationships I have had have often been really painful, starting off with a lot of excitement and ending with a lot of pain. And I knew that I had to do something to change that cycle, because it was really affecting my confidence and my life. I hired Nicola because I have seen her work in the past and I really trust her.
I really was excited to go through the programme and I absolutely got exactly what I needed from it. The approach she took was very very powerful, very deep and very practical as well. It helps you really learn about the different aspects of yourself through the parts work (Voice Dialogue). We worked with some of my conflicting parts… I had parts that were really excited about dating and parts that were terrified – and the process of doing that really led to more confidence and clarity, and a sense of calm.
I’ve found a lot more peacefulness within myself and I no longer feel that sense of anxiety around dating. I meet people all of the time, I feel attractive to men, I feel like I attract men to me instead of being in my head and pushing people away because of coming across as anxious. Now I feel more confident, which means I get approached more by men. Men seem more interested in me and I feel like the chooser. I’m good at setting boundaries and I’m confident about not going into the same old patterns. I just feel much more confident.
Nicola is an excellent coach – and I say that as a coach myself – she is caring and knowledgeable and she really knows what she’s doing. I highly recommend her programme – I felt completely safe in the process, which enabled me to go very deep – and I’ve come out the other side with a lot more clarity and confidence. I’ve benefitted from it massively, so thank you Nicola.